I understand your perspective and your conclusion is likely correct, but, the fact of the matter is, we can't know what was or wasn't the OP's intention.

I wasn't being dishonest in my assessment. Rather, I was trying not to jump to conclusions, giving the OP the benefit of the doubt, so to speak.

All of that being said, I don't think you were wrong to state your critiques to the OP, I just had an issue with your choice of word (abusive is a bit overstated, IMO).

In any case, you have your right to your own opinions and me to mine. I'm honest when I say that I feel no ill about this exchange.