Well, @lindsaybowes, I'm looking at your side pic and if you think that's a belly... just go have a little walk around inside your nearest Walmart!! Lol... quite frankly, I don't call that little bulge a belly... more like the after effects of a big plate of spaghetti :D
Anyway, your self affectionate attitude is Great and everyone should feel that way about themselves... it is the most positive thing to do! Listen to your Hubby and Kids Lyndsay.... they are just telling you the truth! You really have nothing to worry about or hide! :))