I’ve found that my confidence has explosively increased over the last several years as I’ve set goals and achieved them.

Same thing happened to me, as soon as i started demolishing my goals my confidence skyrocket!

but you also watch a lot of netflix or go out too much over the weekend

Yeah, the worse part is when i'm watching some Netflix and actually realize i should be studying or working, my mind tells me to go work but my body is so comfortable on the couch xD

Every time i think elon musk is exaggerating his setting goals he achieves them, i guess we can't put all "blame" on elon, he has a really good team supporting him

Are you setting goals and matching your actions to your ambitions and doing everything in your power to achieve them?

I am, the only difficult part is when i need more people to actually achieve those goals and they are not as hardworking and or focused as i am....