God bless y'all, I just thought i would share that story with all of you.As I wrote this post I was using an alcoholic/addict as the problem, but codependency goes much deeper. People who have children who are addicted also and the parents keep giving them money out of need to help, but usually instead end up up hurting the child over the long run. Case, and point. My cousin is 41 and lives in his mothers basement, he doesn't work, or ever leave the basement just lies around drinking and he manages to drink because mother supports his alcoholism, and his addiction to ciggarettes. You see she left her husband(his dad) when he was 6 and his father was a horrendously violent alcoholic, Now she feels guilt for leaving a abusive situation without her children and 35 years later she is enabling her son into a grave with the amount of alcohol he drinks. @sutnpapper @hopehuggs @everittdmickey