While I agree with your anti-war message this still raises one particular question in me; why did you, knowing what it was gonna be like, bring your kids to it? Seems pretty stupid to willingly put yourself (and the kids) through something you knew you wouldn't enjoy. Your presence probably even indicated support to those who arranged the event.
The last part about no women/mothers being against war is just plain wrong, and you know it.
Wel, first of all your argument is ad hominem used as a red herring. But to answer your question, the poster did not say anything about military. And also my kids have been completely deprogrammed from military and soldiers etc. by me, so they automatically reject it. But i am probably 1 in 1000 in that regard