A Special day in Many Ways!

in #lifelast year

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I should be sleeping. Tomorrow is the last full day my son and daughter-in-law will be in the USA. I have no idea what I would have done without their help. I owe them so much and will miss them tremendously. Yet, you can see it in their eyes they are ready to go back home. Their life is calling and their home. It is time.

One more day of hugs and I love yous said in person to be had. But I know the feeling of missing your home and things familiar to you, so I do not hold it against them.

My Mom has finally woken up from the dream state she has been in. The will to live is finally once again showing brightly in her eyes. She left the Hospital today and got driven down the hill to the rehab center, where she will have to work hard to get her body back in shape to finally go home to her new apartment and life.

It will not be easy, but she has so much to look forward to if she can only get there. I now have faith that she will sooner than later.



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My Monday started with my cell phone not working. It turns out the cell tower in my town was down. The bad part is my cell phone is how my son and Mom have been getting ahold of me these past weeks. This morning, they needed a vital number from me. I could receive text messages but could not send any out.

To work around this problem, I sent the number to my Mom's phone on WhatsApp, and I also sent her an email with the number. I also knew they would never look on the phone for those messages because they were on a call with Social Security. Once in the phone Que with them, you only leave if you want to wait another two hours in line again.

So I called the Hospital. I asked to be sent to my Mom hospital room phone. It took three other stops and telling the same story to finally be connected to her room phone. Lucky for me, they answered it. I explained what the number was they needed. My son found it immediately, and the number fire was put out.



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Next on my list of things to do today was return a horrible computer monitor I bought from Best Buy. The long and short of it is I needed a new monitor because I finally had a new graphics card installed on Saturday. The problem was the new graphics card only had Display Input slots. One of my monitors is so old it would not work anymore with the latest graphics card, and the other one was fine , but I have gotten so used to having two monitors that being down to one felt like I was missing a leg.

The monitor I purchased on Sunday at Best Buy was Crap. This meant I needed to take everything apart and figure out how it all fit back in the box. Find boxing tape to seal everything back up correctly and return it to Best Buy. I forgot my usual driving route to Best Buy is all dug up. I swore loudly as I rounded the corner and realized I was an idiot to have forgotten in only one day.

I snaked the truck through more back roads, made one wrong turn, made one U-turn where I should not have, and finally dropped off the offensive piece of junk at the store. Once that chore was done, I was off to the small computer store closed on Sunday because it was Sunday and everyone deserves a day off!

More back roads I went. Thirty minutes later, I returned home with a new monitor and adaptor. Now, all I needed to do was assemble the monitor and set it up. Once I turned everything back on, I was happy!



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After one short call to ensure Mom was doing okay and that the Hospital was still moving her to the Rehab Center sometime today, I was off on my next big chore. I needed to open a bank account.

Now, normally, I can chit-chat with the best of them. I can follow the bouncing ball in the conversation of someone, trying to make me believe they want to get to know me when they just want my information so they can make me a brand new savings account in their bank. These days, people like to be pandered to. I get it, but sometimes I felt like yelling, "Just ask a straight-out QUESTION!" instead of five minutes of bullshit talk with a question in disguise thrown in occasionally.

Forty minutes later, the bank salesman finally made me a savings account, and he was all happy that he now knew so much about me and gave me the perfect savings account created just for me. I honestly do not even remember the man's name. He talked in circles, around bends, and through loops. I stopped listening one sentence in. He was happy, and I left with what I had come for.

Whatever happened to the good old days when bank peeps treated you like crap and only asked you important questions, and you did not have to make small talk and have to spend almost an hour in a bank opening up one small savings account? Sometimes, I miss those simpler days. I really do not need to be best friends with a bank.



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Once more, in the truck, I headed to my childhood church. I was going to be early for my appointment at the cemetery, but the sun was shining, and after the gabby bank guy, I could use a little quiet.

I almost dosed off to sleep while waiting for an orange pickup truck. I decided to take my phone out and see if a place was open to get my hair cut. It has been over a year since I had gotten it cut, and it needed a good trimming. I was in luck! The place I called had an opening at 4:45 p.m.

I returned to nodding off while waiting for the orange pickup truck, so I could pick out my Fathers's and, in twenty years, my Mother's final resting place. Soon enough, a new orange pickup came around the bend, and it was time.



On the one hand, it felt good to know that my father's ashes would finally be where I knew he would be happy. My parents have always been very active in any church they belonged to. The first forty-plus years of their married life were spent at the church I grew up near.

We lived close enough to the church that you could hear the bells daily. My brother and I could not wake my parents on Christmas morning until the bells rang. Seven in the morning could not come fast enough on those days.

Over the years, I have stopped at this cemetery to visit and talk with my best friend, whom I lost when I was a tiny child. It feels fitting that those I love are in the same place. When I drove out of the church parking lot, I was relieved that things were set in place and paid for.

I had just enough time to go home and look at my new monitor before I heard the front door open. My son and his lovely bride walked in, and I was hugged.



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I explained I would get my hair cut, and, afterward, Grandma should be at the new Rehab Center, and then I would drive there to see how she was doing. They grabbed a few things and were on their way to... I am not sure... I am sure they both looked tired.

I had a wonderful lady cut my hair. She was so funny as she went on and on about how beautiful my natural white hair was. How I should never color it! I should be happy I have white hair because so many young people pay hundreds of dollars for hair like mine.

She then dried, curled, and hair sprayed the crap out of my hair. I can still smell the hairspray. Before I go to sleep? Take a nap? I need a shower so I can breathe fresh air once again. The lady did give a great haircut, though!

The last stop for me today, as I drove past my house again, was to see my Mom, who had finally made it out of the Hospital and into the Rehab Center!! I was surprised to see my son and daughter-in-law there, too!!



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Mom looked happy to finally move on to the next step of her recovery. We discussed future things, but she just wanted to watch her History Channel shows. It had gotten late, and it was her time to wind down for a busy day tomorrow.

I made sure she was as comfortable as you can be when not at home. I ensured she had her phone and tablet next to her should she need either.

On my way out, I talked to the nurses, who told me that many people will bring bed toppers for the beds because the mattresses are so hard. I thanked them and said my husband might be making a trip up later with the one Mom brought up from Florida. It was sitting in my spare bedroom doing nothing. I figured let's put it to good use!

I walked through the maze of hallways and entered the fresh night air, finally turning the truck towards home.



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Once home, I sat here, spent and tired, thinking about my day. I wanted to write a post today of all days because today is my sixth Hive anniversary! I thought I would have written a different post today. Yet I wanted to record my feelings of today and all that happened so I would not forget.

There will be other days where I sing Hive's praises like I always do, but today was for memories locked into the blockchain so they are never forgotten.



Help someone smile today. It can not hurt you.


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My Mom has finally woken up from the dream state she has been in. The will to live is finally once again showing brightly in her eyes

Awwwwwwwwwwww that's good news, I am so happy for your mum and congratulations on hitting 6 years on the blockchain🥳🥳

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Hello lovely lady! 😊

HAPPY HIVE-IVERSARY! I feel exhausted just reading about your many adventures on this day, so I can only imagine how tired you felt. Sending you lots of love, hugs, and positive energy, to help you replenish and be ready for another day of adventures to come. 😊

So nice to see your mom settled into her rehab, hopefully she'll heal/rehab quickly and be in her new apartment before you know it! 😊

Wishing your son and d-i-l a safe trip home. I know you'll miss them a lot, but you totally get how they feel and why they want to go. I'm sure there will be many return trips in the years to come for you all to enjoy again though. 😊

God bless you and your wonderful family. Have an awesome day my fabulous friend! 😊

THANK YOU!!

I am still recovering from yesterday!! So tired and my body is yelling at me! but it's been raining here for 2 solid days so that is not helping.

I am hoping she wants to get to her new home fast too and does all her rehab too!! I am tired of going to Hospital like settings loll

I am waiting to hear the kids landed safely. I am sure they are fine but you still worry.

HUGE HUGS!

You're most welcome!! Here's another HHHHUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGG to help you hang in there until the rain goes away. I know how hard the damp/wet is on you. My body's mad at me here too, so I feel for you sister. 😊

I bet once your mom starts rehab, she'll kick butt and heal fast, especially if she likes her rehab therapist. We tend to listen better to our pain inducers/relievers/healers, if we like them...or maybe that's just me and I'm projecting...either way, your mom is a fighter and she will get stronger every day. Before you know it you'll be hanging out in her apartment, chatting over tea in the living room. 😊

Of course you worry; you're a great mom; worrying is part of the job description and never goes away, no matter the age of our children; 3 months, 30 years, no difference. They're still our babies and we'll always worry, just a little. Ours are both in their mid-to-late 20s and I still worry if I don't hear from them every couple of days or so. &#128522

HUGE HUGS, back! 😊

So, happy you wrote this post giving us an update on your busy life. And busy you are, you busy-bee!! Glad to hear your mom is on the road to recovery and your son and daughter-in-law were there for all this time. Hopefully, things will now be slowing down a little for you. My fingers are crossed.

Oh, and your hairdresser was right: You do have the most beautiful white hair!! My hubby won't let me grow out my gray/white yet. But one day... until then I'll have funky colors.

But you're certainly right about the hairspray. My hairdresser has learned by now that I do not want any of that stinky stuff in my hair, thank you very much! LOL

yeah, the days are flying by and not slowing down.well my body is but I'm so tired my brain doesn't register anything any more....

and yes, most days I like my hair but it has been this color for over 25 years so not really the same as if you got it MUCH later in life......

It just looks better if I have makeup on to brighten my face up. all that white kind of blends in. LOLL but the energy to put makeup on......I really do not have lately sooooooooooooo

I just need more strong enough to enjoy her new place even for a little while.

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Happy Hive Birthday, I am so happy to hear that your Mom is doing better. Boy, you had a full day but you conquered it. I love your hair color mine is brown with streaks of grey.
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Yeah, it was a very long day but lots that needed doing got done so there is that :D

I'm grateful to hear that your mom is improving and has graduated to rehab! Hopefully this next bit goes smoothly, and she can finally go home to her new apartment.

The bank account and monitor sound tedious... Glad you were able to get them situated, as well as gathering loved ones in memory. It's nice that now you can visit your dad and your friend at the same time.

The haircut looks absolutely awesome! 😍 It's so true, a LOT of people would pay to have your hair color- I almost did a silvery white last time I dyed my hair 😂 it's fairy hair! ❤️

Big hugs to you, and happy cake day! 🎂🤗

Thanks!
I am sorry I have been so quiet. the days are flying by and nothing good is happening so by the end of my day I just pass out........

we find out tomorrow how long they think she will need in rehab.......

I do not think she will like the answer

so we will see............

going to be a long day tomorrow is all I know

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I’m so excited your mom is finally up and doing better.
Once again congratulations to your six years anniversary on Hive. Keep making waves ☺️

That certainly was a full day! I'm so glad your son and daughter-in-law were able to come and help out with your mom. And it's great to know she is in rehab now. Happy Hive birthday! Maybe you can celebrate with a nap! LOL

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