Your final line rang in my ears. People are spiritual beings in a physical experience so there's no use judging a body that doesn't encompass us.
I let people guess for fun, because it also challenges their thinking to stretch some. That;s a brilliant approach to have them think back on why they would ask such a question. I'm fortunate enough to be born into a culturally diverse society here. Being judgemental can really doom someone where everyone is the minority.
For every struggle, there's always something to gain. The thicker skin here gives me solace c: