You can feel each word as you keep reading. Thank you very much for your post! I would say to forgive - it is a very hard task indeed and it takes time and efforts. What I do for myself - I am mentally saying "thank you" to a person who offended me as I believe whoever I met in my life is there for a reason... Saying "thank you" helps me and me alone - first of all appreciate the experience I got (although sometimes it is very hard to do%(( as our life nothing but set of different experiences %) love to you and good luck to your process