Hey Dears, All my mind it's about love. Maybe summertime its affecting me. Holidays+ sea+ sun+ fresh vegetables and fruit+ alive nature+ new people + adventures+ LOVE... My love story also started in gorgeous summertime a year ago.
" I lead my sister to a camp hole. The hole were crowded of kids and volunteers. I heard like one Asian guy talked with stranger and repeat a word ,,Draugai!!" ( In Lithuanian means ''friends''). He said it with a big accent and I couldn't stop smiling. Randomly, he noticed my smile. And I moved to him to ask about this word."
" She said ,,Hi " and we start to talk. About the our age , hobbies. I guess, we were talking only around 5 minutes. I just was stunned, shell-shocked. She looked so beautiful. Somebody call her name and she just let me stand like this. I thought I will never see her again."
This is how we met. And now, after one year, I can say it was destiny that we met each other in that summertime day in the camp... In our relationship, we had some challenges, experience, bad and good days.Moreover, we created some traditions and our rules.
•Have an open talk.
Another person can't read your mind or know how are you feeling. Those talks should be without any blame, angry or force. I'm sure, it will help you to understand each other and be honest. You can discuss about your fears, challenges, things u don't like, expects.
• Be a strong team.
It means to support each other, respect, help, caring, don't be selfish, forgive,make each other better person, motivate, make each other smile.
• Make your own rituals or traditions.
It really helps to keep relationships more stronger and keep them all the time alive. Just try to give a cute or funny nickname for your lover, once a week have a date, write a love or thanksgiving letter, small gifts, travel together, make a compliments day.
• To allow your lover to be yourself and give some freedom.
You can't control each other. Sometimes you need to be with yourself too. Spend some time separate. Don't forget to support each other in dreams, goals, be a shoulder. Love each other for who you are.
• Never go to sleep before to reconcile.
You need to rest and have a good sleep. If u had a conflict before, just try to solve it. You don't need any bad emotions, nervous or worries for the night time.
• Enjoy in silence together.
For a few minutes just sit together and don't talk.Look at each other eyes and enjoy in the moment. You have that special connection for which one don't need any words.
• Try to take a compromise in any situation.
• Tell those miracle words :
∆ I believe in you
∆ You make me happy
∆ Good morning/ Good night Bae
∆ Im so lucky to have you
∆ I like when you are smiling
∆ I love you
∆ I'm with you
∆ Thank you
∆ I'm so proud of you
∆ Sorry
Bae, if not you ,I would never realize those things. Thanks for your Love , support and every moment with you. I LOVE YOU !!! WO AI NI !!!
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Love others and enjoy in love my Dears. Thanks for following me and especially for those 323 followers who are with me in my life road. I'm waiting for your new comments. See you soon!!!
Best wishes,
Ruelle
I love the miracle words you wrote down, those are really nice :)
And there's some good advice in your article, fortunately my relationship is perfect but I could have used some of this in my previous relationships for sure :)
Good to know that you liked it and will us some advices:). Do you have your own advices about relationships? I would like to hear it :)Thanks peterveronika!!!!
I wrote a few articles on relationships too, this is one of them, you might find interesting
https://steemit.com/love/@peterveronika/10-signs-that-you-found-the-love-of-your-life
Nice :)
Thanks:)
i wish i can spend those moments