I wish my grandparents were still alive to talk to them today. I'm glad to have had them around when I was a child. You're right. We have one shot and we should live it. I'm in the process of figuring out my future now. I'm 43. I've given my employer 10 years of my life. I'm out. I'm going to work for myself even if it means less money. Time and happiness are more important.