Human nature is expecting happiness and trying to minimize adversity. But we also have no control to regulate the situation. There will be only reproaches when the effort to achieve goodness has been done. Obviously, it is that blemish that will help complete the less. But from the blame that sometimes people feel impatient, they become very weak and sometimes want to surrender. Though already tried in the middle. Then do not lose? Of course loss.
The important thing is to take a lesson from what happened. Good or bad. More or less. It will have a lot of impact for humans.
Some of the things below may seem trivial. But the events that are below this sometimes become one of the causes of someone easy to feel tired, bored and want to give up when struggling.
1. When your plan today is not going well
Some people become master planners. They will try to plan and arrange various activities for the next day. Starting from activities, time, place to what will be done and achieved as it is clear and must be done well in order to achieve the goals that have been set.
But we are not God who can decide what will happen. True indeed, when it has been undertaken there will be less perceived. Upset to upset even to yourself is also not uncommon. But does not that make us so calm? Suspect many things and become easily give up. Trying to accept what's going on, getting out and chanting is difficult. But if it can be done, then our heart will be stronger again.
2. When you have tried to do the task very hard, but your score is still low
This usually happens when you are still in school or college. You may feel disappointed and often blame many parties, when what you try still just got a bad score. Especially when you have to work in groups, but only you who have to worry about this. As if to work alone, but the value obtained was the same.
But at least there will be lessons that you can. Even you know more things, you become very tough and become a very patient person.
3. In the world of work, revision and even rejection has become commonplace.
Working is not just about completing a task and earning a salary. If you have enough experience working in the industrial world and interact among many people with many different tasks and characters. So it's not a new thing if the task you've tried so hard, get reproaches, and revisions.
There may even be times where you feel stressed with work and even the environment. Want to give up indeed. But would not it be a shame if the fight had been over just because you were tired of receiving revisions? As long as you do not violate the rules and laws, then you can think once more to surrender.
4. When your job application does not provide an answer
As for you who are still fresh graduate or just out of previous work. Of course want to get a better replacement. Work according to passion in a place with little pressure. Cover letter and CV you have sent. But never received an answer. Or you've been tested but never escaped.
You may be upset, feel you've tried your best. Have experience and science that should be considered. But it is possible that rejection in one place is your gate to get a dream job somewhere else. Do not give up, let alone blame those who reject you. Instrospect is not a bad thing you can do.
5. When the business that you run is still so-so.
Being a businessperson is not easy. Unlimited time or hours, the desire to learn to be sharpened every day and of course the capital will not be a little issued. You may be very tired when many attempts are attempted but none works.
Loss due to no turnover of capital or cheated business associates may be a common thing. Not even you, many successful businessmen who also often fail in running their business. You also have to be a tough person. If that's true of your dreams then keep trying.
6. Many friends who sometimes want to knock you down. You will have a quality friend
In friends we really should not be picky, but we also should not be arbitrary when we know what it wants to become. Befriend like natural selection. The initial meet very well does not guarantee it will be forever together. Even those who meet unintentionally or even through a dispute do not mean it can not be compact in the future.
Friends will come and go. They do not always do what we do. Even the bad will be a lesson for us. Until finally we will find friends who want to spend time just ask how we live despite living far apart and rarely meet face to face.
7. When you have not met a spouse, reproaches have starch so amplifier your heart
Meeting a life partner and living a married life is everyone's dream. The ideal age benchmark for marriage seems to have been created environmentally. They will easily generalize all circles. If it is beyond the age set environment then someone is considered not sold and so forth. Reproaches have become commonplace for joke. But do we have to get hooked and irritable?
If you can try to be patient, try to be patient. Meeting a life partner is not about who quickly he can. Do not get too upset. Let them speak as they wish. You just have to pray to be met at the right time.
You have perfectly described the story of failures. It's amazing.
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