Cheaters ...?? is it so wrong?

Lets Start off with the Question.

Is cheating wrong? Well of course!! But let me share what I have found over the years of being single and dating married men for 2 years. Now... don't go all full blast on me , let me tell you men, woman we all lie. As most all of you know about the Ashley Madison Scandal. Yes Many were Stupid some were smart enough to be total incognito , but no one was safe from the cyber attack. 

Years ago I was married for 27 years of my life , until I couldn't take the emotional and physical abuse so I left. within a month I had met someone who was the love of my life and we both new it , we had no reason to ever cheat, we kept our relationship strong , never straying oh sure looking is normal , after all we are human. of course we all have fantasies, but we never had a reason , because we did it all , our passion and love lasted 10 years it was so beautiful ,Until I got the call that he had been killed by a drunk driver 3 years ago, I was crushed and fell to my knees in pain from my lose...I began to think whats the point to love again because I didn't think I would ever find that type of love again, nor did I want to , I felt as is I needed a man but nothing serious as I knew I wasn't ready , but at the same time I was lonely for just a simple companionship . So I logged into Ashley Madison and starting looking for something to keep my mind off this tragedy. I wanted to just have fun and boost my ego a little. well I was very surprised to see and know the type of men on there. and the amount of men searching to rekindle their youth as most were over 50 years old .I had met a man who was famous an I had no idea at the time until he proved who he was, I was in shock!!. Then I was excited to met him after 3 months of chatting long distance . He had his own aircraft and always made me feel good. He treated like his queen , I had asked him about his live in gf of 25 years and I was shocked to hear , that his gf knew what he was doing. He had opened my eyes about the whole running around on one another .

I remember him telling me" Nothing is forever", to live In the happiest moments of your life while you can , because tomorrow may never come, 

After 3 years I realized I had fallen deep for a man that was not mine and I finally Gave up and understood who I may be hurting and how would I fell?  I accepted that. But when you develop love for someone taken it hurts and it all been just a fantasy . He will never ever leave his wife , so if your thinking your sooo special and he will , your delusional!!!

In the end I'm saying save yourself the heartache and stay away from married people. After all if they are so miserable then they would leave their spouse, Its just a booty thing understand that first.