KUDOS GORGEOUS
I guess you could say it's a way of thinking that has been instilled in my (our) minds by our parents, family and society.
My philosophical journey has brought me to a notion that the mind exist to nothing until it starts thinking . It may actually not be the environment that made you think... you thought.. the environment is just an IMPULSE
One purpose of marriage is to create a stable home in which children can grow and thrive [PROCREATION]
Come with me on a journey of family. In a family where there are no children to scatter the furniture for you to get pissed and happy at the same time. when your partner is away on a journey [let say death] one would only gain serenity and peace from the offspring his continual release of sperm into you left behind or in you . children also holds one back when thinking of a divorce.
Mentally Not Ready? Beautiful ... nobody is ever mentally ready for marriage or childbirth... it just happens .. and you swing along with it....
Spread your legs wide, let your partner inside u. when he is about to pull out wrap your legs around him and let him make you a mother. feel the pains, tears and joys of motherhood... . DON'T THINK ABOUT MONEY .GOD THE ALMIGHTY THAT CREATED CHILDREN AS COMFORT SUFFICES HIS CREATION
@rabiujaga just speaking his mind.