I can only agree with that because I am the oldest and have two smaller brothers. I am 5 & 6 years older then them. The middle does not bother me that I'm older, he works hard and gets good grades. The younger, on the other hand, has a harder time because less attention is paid to him. He also finds it very difficult to accept that we are older, because he always compares with us. Often you can not draw these comparisons. A very simple example, the middle one goes to a store and buys a movie with an age limit, which the younger may not buy. I think that as an older brother you are faced with a dilemma.