I do not leave anyone behind but people are losing me slowly

Not always the departure is deliberate, not always forget someone because we wanted to, people do not always go away because they do not love us more. It is the absence of contact, to look, to care, to water and care that takes us away from each other, far more than the lack of love.

The daily routine clogs in the mechanical and repetitive tribulations, occupying the obligations and responsibilities, extending our working hours beyond the eight hours, leaving us little room to be filled with human and affective relations. Thus, the danger of departing from the personal contact, the emptying of sensitivity and tact, to take us to the coldness of a solitary life, is a constant.

Many times, we focus our energies only in obtaining what we want in terms of professional achievement, in order to achieve professional success and financial stability, while we forget to reserve a time needed to personal relationships. And so we follow accumulating things and comfort, while we lost, little by little, the people who are vital, which help us to be better, without succumbing.

For this reason it is that sometimes we feel that we are being ignored or slighted by someone whose friendship will weaken, whose messages are decreasing, whose calls will thinning, whose meetings will be extinguished. And instead of realizing how much our behavior influenced this distancing, we are only trying to blame the other for distance ourselves we expand, we were busy with everything but with the other.

In this sense, not always the removal is deliberate, not always forget someone because we wanted to, people do not always go away because they do not love us more. It is the absence of contact, to look, to care, which takes us away from each other, far more than the lack of love. It is the valuation of extreme material achievements we empties of conquests affective, so subtle, but fatal.

This is why the need to reserve within us special places where they dwell those to whom we owe gratitude for helping us to be better people, to bring us loads of feelings that cannot be missed, by more than the body gives, for longer than the time run, no matter how hard you tired, if extenue, if desabe. Losing what you purchase can even be painful, but lose who gave us their hands with love of truth is irreversible. And very painful.