I found you through your being featured in a post by @f3nix in the Pay it Forward challenge. I am glad I read your post, and have put you on my follow list. Your insights into the ghosts of the past/familiarity trying to force chains of the boy/man who was back onto you struck a chord with me. I hope that the reunion went better than you could have expected, and that you will have cause to return several more times to celebrate more birthdays for your grandmother.