For your claims of peacefulness to be taken seriously, you'll need to reject the Quran as it is now and draft a new version without the violence. Christains should do the same with their Bible. Both books contain some good, uplifting material but they both also contain a lot of horrifying commands that, when taken literally and obeyed, produce extreme of violence in the world. I understand that the extremists live very differently than the moderates but they will continue to represent one another as long as they are citing the same book as the motivation. They claim that their extremism is simply a more faithful and true practice of what their holy book commands. The christian crusaders claimed the same thing.