There is an all too common trend in modern society.
It seems that people just don't want to be held accountable. They do not want to take responsibility for the things that they say and do. Time and time again, they blame others for their own actions. Personally, I think that this is extremely lame. No one can force me to do anything. Sure, people can provoke me, but it is my choice whether or not I respond to that provoking in a negative manner. If someone wrongs me, it does not make it right for me to wrong them. Here are a few of my thoughts on the subject.
WHO'S TO BLAME?
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You have your self to blame for your actions and decisions.
For that reason they say;
Amen to that! Thanks!
Good thoughts there @papa-pepper. By not transferring the blame on others, we tends not to see our faults. This is what achievers don't do, no one is culpable for your actions it's YOU. In this I have found unequal strength, I can now control my emotions. I chose things I react too and ignore several others. And ultimately, I am free. No one can make me do what I don't wanna do and anything I do, I'm responsible for it.
Glad to hear you agree! Hopefully it'll rub off on some others! Thanks!
My pleasure Sir. I look forward to learning some more from you.
So true, but this is as old as it could get. All the way back to our original father. “What do you have to say for yourself Adam?” paraphrase
Adams reply, “The woman, that you gave me, she gave me of the fruit and I did eat!” First he blamed the woman, then he blamed God!
In a world where everyone gets a trophy!
Yeah, the original blame game.
Solid, useful message :)
Just what I needed to hear today!
Thanks!
Hope it helps! Thanks man.
If you give up now, you will not be like those who enjoy the sweetness of success.
The one who has faith is the strong one, the one who doubts is the weak one. Confidence, decisiveness and decisions will definitely give rise to great actions.
Living in doubt will only hinder your own steps.
Actually there are two advantages that you get if you experience failure. First, you know something that does not work well so far, secondly you are given the opportunity to try in another way.
Failure is not really meaningful if we fall. Our meaningful failure is down, to improve the pace so that it can climb back faster.
The saddest and most disastrous failure is when you fail to be a strong person and fail to move on.
When God does not allow you to be happy where you are going now, surely God is preparing another place that makes you happier. keep trying @papa-pepper, good luck ahead
Thanks for the encouragement and very good insight.
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I loled at your proof picture 😂
I just had a huge conversation about exactly this! Sadly, I don't think I got my point through to the other person..
I think your life will get, be better if you take accountability for your own actions, rather then blaming others constantly
Glad you liked that!
No one can progress in life unless they admit their mistakes in their actions and try to learn from them!
Like the old saying goes: If we all use the "eye for an eye" rule, we end up in a world of blind people.
#truestory
@papa-pepper do not have to think about things like that, if you think of things like that, the problem will be great,
I will always be by your side to support you always.
I am just saying that we do not have to be mean to others when they are mean to us. We can still choose to be kind. No one can "make you" be mean.
So true. Good point here. We should all accept our fault instead of blaming others. Food for thought. Thanks for sharing
Right on! Thank you @emma001!
Trust me sir, it's not random rubble .
We need people to step up, be the man or woman and take responsibility for their actions.
By doing this we not only create a positive image for ourselves, but also prevent future mistakes and make our community a better place.
Wow! Thank you for that encouragement!
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Hey cool! Thanks man.
Agreed, remember too, that there are those of us that don't come from a place of "live and let live". Me, I come from fairly crazy places in life where if you didn't stand up and fight for yourself, you were destroyed until you did. I have been truly working hard to change this part of myself. Once in a while, though, I get pushed to a point where I have to release and try to maintain control. I wish I could just snap my fingers and let certain things roll off, and I have gotten far better at it than I used to be, but there are those times where my actions are stupid and wrong. Those are the times where I lose control and give in to the feelings that my past has, still, ingrained my conscious. I do think that as long as I do take responsibility for my actions, recognize them, and try like heck to change them I am on the right path. I am so happy that I am homesteading, it helps with anger management and forces patience and perseverance on such an awesome level. I have been learning how to channel my fight into different things and put that energy, as bad as it may be, into a positive and working form of energy. I think that my lord grabs me by the collar once in a while too! Thanks for this, helps for reflection!
The Lord grabs me sometimes too, snd the peacefulness of homesteading certainly can help.
Another lovely motivation post I see! here @papa-pepper
thanks for shareing
great post @papa-pepper.
rhanks for sharing.
Thank you. I try to motivate, encourage, and inspire others.
Thank you for sharing post,succes for you @papa-pepper.
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Thats pretty cool to know. Thanks for sharing.
You have the right idea @papa-pepper, it's all about growing up and becoming love, in this consciousness trainer called life.
Amen to that. Thank you.
Great Post!
I agree there is absolutely no one to blame but yourself. Like for real nobody cares about all the excuses and complaining. Once people understand nobody is to blame but them they will have a much more positive mindset in holding themselves accountable.
Steem on :)
Wait, you're blaming me too? lol
Lol you know I am :)
Indeed we all should be held accountable for our actions no matter the reason for that action which is why sometimes the best reaction is simply to not react.... Not immediately anyway because often times emotions cloud our better judgment
Haha I just watched this this morning while milking my goats!
I dont think they learned anything at all from it, since Ella decided to bully Luna who decided to bully Pixie, but I thought it was great! Words of wisdom I hope many will heed! ♥
LOL - Yeah, they might not learn, but hopefully they will be able to follow your good example one day!
Ehh, they're goats, real butt-heads, in fact, so I won't hold my breath....
;)
I think that is the nature of a human, blaming others. But true it is up to us how we react on that situation. We have to cultivate on that, take responsibility to our own action. Instead of blaming others, better to focus in ourself and make ourself mote mature.thanks for this post :)
Agree with you @papa-pepper.
thanks for your motivation for life , all the time you share with us very important thing with us and this very use full for us
your post is very useful @papa-peper :)
With this post indirectly you give lessons to many people who have forgotten with their own responsibility.
They have said and done something that has consequences but they are not responsible for what they have done.
I am waiting for your next posting 😊
It’s an odd world we live in. Holding each other up to a standard of personal sovereignty is hugely important. Victimizing yourself is the worst play possible, especially because it decreases your chances of learning from your experience. We can do better!
I expect you all to check me if I ever blame others for my actions. Even when provoked. Don’t let me get complacent!
Thanks for the post mr. Pepper!
Wow, what a sobering offer. Please feel free to do that same. If I'm ot doing it right, then call me out.
The right action for someone caught up in such a fix of having gotten on his nerves by the other party is to exercise self control in order not to make the situation a grave.
This is very motivating and helping humans to have a self descipline inorder to live in harmony with others.
Thanks so much @paper-peper for sharing your thoughts to that.
Nice
no need to think about a bad thing, just think positive friend
Yes Sir. That's the truth. Thanks for sharing. @journeyfreedom
Thanks for sharing information @papa-pepper.
Thanks for a valuable sharing...
It is very common that people want to attribute to others the failures, as it is very common to take over the success of others, unfortunately these situations in all areas of life are increasingly seen.
excellent perspective dear friend @ papa-pepper
I wish you a wonderful week
Actually life is alike a teamplay like football or basketball...you kick the ball and make it a goal and sometimes you kick again but it is out this time...Especially in any community no matter its crowd you are responsible yourself...But like in Football or Basketball your behaviours effects the all team then coach takes you side...So as a humanbeing if we make mistakes and these mistakes effect the others life then we will be punished somehow a way...That is my opinion...I think we are all game players and the life is only and one game of us...And we don't have too much time to be succeed...
Thanks for sharing and have a nice day my friend...
In fortunately we live in a time where anger is celebrated and with things like social media no one ever has to admit they are wrong it seems. The challenge is that you do not grow without recognizing your faults and mistakes and taking it from there. Yes there will always be people who piss you off and act like idiots but these are opportunities to learn about yourself and test your patience skills. If you can do this then you will be further ahead in life. I always tell people to take a minute in between the incident and your response and you will feel completely different about the situation. Calm down and then respond if you must. Thanks for the positive thoughts and advice. Love your videos and posts.
They really are opportunities for us to learn and grow!
I love the realistic ideals you bring forth, it’s something the community could learn from.
Thank you.
There is no one to be blame but you. The successful ones are the one who take responsibility for the outcome of their action. With that they learn from such outcome either good or bad for further decision.
The annoying part of situation like this is that people are always ready to take the praise for a good outcome, but look someone to blame for otherwise
Wow, you are very correct. That is annoying!
Good post
The wisdom of the septad, and you have two of them :) Of course you are right and deep down everyone feels that an eye for an eye is the wrong reaction. You just hurt yourself, but to truly live by this directive, you need to conceive that your own actions led you to that particular conflicting situation, a mere mirror of yourself. And that is the hardest part.
It sure can be tough. Thanks for the input!
You are welcome, btw, here is the third seven :)
No action would be considered blameless unless the will was so, for by the will the act was dictated. We are all responsible for our choices. We live in a world where we blame others for our own shortfalls. We blame others even if we ate too much. Haha. Life is funny sometimes and it is all about choices. Sadly we push it around just to make ourselves feel better. Well done papa, you are a wise man.
Es cierto hay veces que culpamos a los demas de nuestros errores, seamos responsable y corrijamos nuestros errores, si me caigo me levanto.
If you agree with them it stuffs up their prepared escalations, cuts the ground out from under their feet and leaves them nowhere to go.
Sometimes they might even have a semblance of truth in their accusations as well.
Also, remember when you are pointing one finger at somebody, there are three more fingers pointing back at you. [as in the proof picture]
Excellent mini-rant. Some cliche's are better than others, and "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" is a pretty good one.
It is always easier to blame someone else than look in the mirror and take ownership of your own actions. It takes courage to face our own weakness.