If you have learned to rule yourself (your emotions, your thinking, your physical being), why would you worry about all this?
If you haven't learned to take responsibility for ruling yourself, then it is probably still best to not worry because you can't do anything about it anyway :-)
You're right, but maybe I have to learn better to rule myself :P Sometimes my hubby say to me I'm too "fumina" (it's an italian way to speech to say I'm a woman who don't have self control in some situations), but I'm trying to be more quiet :D
You and your hubby can help each other :-)