This is absolutely true. All we do is pass the bulk of the blame to others and accuse them of what we failed at. It is easy to give excuses and point fingers than go the hard road of looking ourselves in the mirror and take responsibility. No one has that controlling effect to control our lives than us. We should take charge. Humility is accepting you are wrong and stepping on the road to recovery. Thank you for this timely reminder. Conscious and deliberate steps it is!