Hello Jaynie. Glad you came out stronger and more beautiful. Happiness is key. You realized what took so many a long time to realize. Your happiness is dependent on you and not what others say, do or don't do. Divorce isn't nice but you came out stronger and happy. That speaks more of your strength. "Life will either bless or bury. It is not what others say or do that matters, it is what you say to yourself when they are through with their talking or deeds.". Stay happy.