Really interesting read! Thank you so much for sharing.
I'm in a monogamous, hetero relationship (married with kids), but I find the subject of poly really fascinating. I love to delve into and try to understand all sides of humanity, to take a step back from what's been ingrained into our culture for decades, of what things are "supposed to look like", and look at the whole spectrum.
Reading about it and sharing with your SO is a great start!