If you think it's hard being ugly, try being good looking. Who's outnumbered? People get bullied as kids for being both odd looking and not so odd looking. The bigger ones usually win the fights.

Myself, I'm a fit male. I've been this way my entire life and for the most part, not on purpose. When I was young, I was skinny. Even today some people think I'm thin. They tell me to gain weight, eat. ...I probably eat more than they do.

I mean no harm. Without rambling on forever I'd just like to point something out. The thing many people in this world are jealous of, the thing they typically assume is done on purpose... is not all it's cracked up to be.

Don't worry about yourself. One's trash is another person's treasure. You'll never please everyone no matter how hard you try, so don't bother. Go with what feels natural. Have a good day.