Plenty of other words and phrases some use to weasel their way out of a difficult conversation. People are made out to feel embarrassed for not understanding or questioning. And of course there are some who are overly dramatic or obnoxious, but it doesn't make sense to lump everyone into that pile. I'm confident we've all seen it happen. Sometimes they're used humorously so that can be fun. Context matters.
Sometimes people just think if you disagree or don't fully understand, you're sitting on the other end going REEEEEEEE! So some have that vision in their head of a nutcase well in advance, and apply it to anyone not cheering. The one having doubts is then forced to take the blame for the vision inside the other's head. That happens with tone as well. You can write something direct, maybe a bit blunt, but perfectly calm; people hear yelling within their minds, and blame the one who isn't yelling for the voices inside their head.
Texting is still a relatively new form of communication. Several still struggle with it. And in this day and age, sometimes people are fearful of being wrong, since the 'error' is published. So if they make the mistake of viewing you as a nutcase, no matter what you say, they won't come down from that cloud.
There's probably a lot more I could have tucked inside this post but it was getting too long. That's why I appreciate you folks coming along to talk.
That happens with tone as well. You can write something direct, maybe a bit blunt, but perfectly calm; people hear yelling within their minds, and blame the one who isn't yelling for the voices inside their head.
Happens to me as well. This is a global crowd. Some areas are a little more delicate when it comes to communication. But it's not up to others to tiptoe around their needs. Especially since it's impossible to know in advance. Some will think you're angry just for slipping in a fuck or shit. Commence communication breakdown...
The sad part is I like to cuss and what not. I don't like to talk all calm all the time. In fact as I am getting older I am slowly getting calmer but my voice and tone still gets taken as me offending them with my bluntness.
I get the whole be good to others but sometimes I just have about 1 fuck to give in a day and I use it for something that I think I really do give a fuck about.
I know.
Am just reacting getting a response like Bill and Ted.
Plenty of other words and phrases some use to weasel their way out of a difficult conversation. People are made out to feel embarrassed for not understanding or questioning. And of course there are some who are overly dramatic or obnoxious, but it doesn't make sense to lump everyone into that pile. I'm confident we've all seen it happen. Sometimes they're used humorously so that can be fun. Context matters.
I was just thinking of that. "Context"
Sometimes dickheads just hear the last paragraph of an hour long debate and start to put their two cents in.
Sometimes people just think if you disagree or don't fully understand, you're sitting on the other end going REEEEEEEE! So some have that vision in their head of a nutcase well in advance, and apply it to anyone not cheering. The one having doubts is then forced to take the blame for the vision inside the other's head. That happens with tone as well. You can write something direct, maybe a bit blunt, but perfectly calm; people hear yelling within their minds, and blame the one who isn't yelling for the voices inside their head.
Texting is still a relatively new form of communication. Several still struggle with it. And in this day and age, sometimes people are fearful of being wrong, since the 'error' is published. So if they make the mistake of viewing you as a nutcase, no matter what you say, they won't come down from that cloud.
There's probably a lot more I could have tucked inside this post but it was getting too long. That's why I appreciate you folks coming along to talk.
Dude.
This shit always happens to me...
Happens to me as well. This is a global crowd. Some areas are a little more delicate when it comes to communication. But it's not up to others to tiptoe around their needs. Especially since it's impossible to know in advance. Some will think you're angry just for slipping in a fuck or shit. Commence communication breakdown...
The sad part is I like to cuss and what not. I don't like to talk all calm all the time. In fact as I am getting older I am slowly getting calmer but my voice and tone still gets taken as me offending them with my bluntness.
I get the whole be good to others but sometimes I just have about 1 fuck to give in a day and I use it for something that I think I really do give a fuck about.