Yes, @susanne, unfortunately so many people judge us from their point of view, sometimes it`s a pity. My wife is also sometimes raises such questions such as why do they think that women are bad drivers or can not park, why woman should stay at home with children, and can not be a good specialist and work, because when the baby does not need breastfeeding both parents are equal in child care, and so on. although my wife is also not a feminist, etc. unfortunately these questions are always around and it sometimes they hurt, I hope this will change in time (my wife asks me to say hello to you)))