Introducing my eight year old child to Malcolm X

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Bookworm

My eldest daughter loves to read. I can always find her curled up in the corner somewhere in the house with her head buried in a book. She loves children's book and to escape into a world of her own. She especially loves to read at bedtime. Long after I've tucked her in and said goodnight I can find her reading, using her toy glow lantern to illuminate the pages.

This evening I caught her again, reading with limited lighting. She shares the room with her younger sister, they have a bunk bed. My eldest daughter usually sleeps on the top bunk. However on a hot London evening, like tonight we put down a mattress so both she and her sister can enjoy the the cooling effects of the electric fan.

Prisoner

She could have been mistaken for a juvenile convict, the way she laid, on a mattress on the floor, with her makeshift lamp lighting up the novel she was reading. It reminded me of the story of how Malcolm X's eyesight deteriorated and how he came wear those iconic glasses.

I was also reminded that I was yet to introduce my daughter to Malcolm X. This seemed an opportune moment to do so.

Context

I told her about the importance of having good light when reading. She already needs to wear glasses and I explained that her eyesight will get worse if she continues to read in the dark.

I told her that there was a black leader, Malcolm X who wore glasses similar to hers. He did bad things when he was young and ended up going to prison.


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However when he was in prison he turned his life around. He did it by reading books. Just like her. Because he was in prison, he had to read in the dark. He had good eyesight when he went to prison. However he read so much that he eyesight got bad. So bad that he needed glasses. He was well-known for the things he believed and said. He was easily recognised by his glasses. I'm sure he spent plenty of nights like her, reading in the darkness.

Astute

My daughter pointed out that if he was so bad that he needed to go to prison how did he become a leader? I told her that he turned his life around through learning and reading in prison. I told her, she too can achieve great things. But she doesn't need to go to prison to do it. She can start learning now as a child.

Also she doesn't need to spoil her eyesight either. If she wants to read at night she should switch on the light or lamp and let me know when she's finished. I'll switch it off for her. She smiled and agreed.

Perspective

I left it there. We live in a different time from even when I was a child. My daughters live in multicultural London. They have friends with backgrounds from all corners of the globe, and intermingle with far less friction than when I was a child. This flavours what I teach them and when.

At some stage, when they are old enough to put it in it's proper context, I will teach them about the civil rights movement in America. The different ways people responded to oppression and segregation. I'll teach them about the philosophies of Malcolm X, Martin Luther King, Marcus Garvey and many others. For now, I'll teach about the importance of looking after their health and eyesight. And plant the seeds of knowledge to come.


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"We live in a different time"... As a parent myself, I see the same thing. It's very important for them to know the history and appreciate what it took to make things better now than they were before. It has been a historic struggle from many kinds of heroes and heroines. But like yours, my kids are in a very diverse environment also. And we have to realize that, as President Obama said a few years ago of his daughters and their friends, 'They're better than we were' (that's an imperfect paraphrase from my imperfect memory).

They need to know about all of it, as they reach the ages where it makes sense to introduce them to it, but when race doesn't even enter into their minds and their friends are all colors and nationalities and backgrounds, isn't that what Martin Luther King wanted when he had a dream? Plenty of racism and sexism and other discrimination remains, and there are places that haven't had the opportunity to learn tolerance firsthand, but in diverse places where people have learned to appreciate one another, these kids have the best approach.

Best regards from me, Your comment is very meaningful ... it is amazing when a wise one says so, may you always succeed.

As a parent myself and one who left childhood age some 20 plus years ago, I have come to understand that children will always be children. They develop a mind of their own and have a tendency to follow through whatever they make up their mind to do until they see a compelling need to consider other people's advice unless an undue pressure is used to stop them.

I believe that your daughter will adjust her reading habit on her own when the time comes. You have sowed a seed in her heart as a father, for now she just wants to do what her mind tells her. She will come back to do what you have told her much later in life.

"The Autobiography of Malcolm X" is one of the most inspiring books I've read so far.

Can also relate to my eyesight getting worse and worse because of reading under suboptimal conditions haha learned the lesson.

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My children are six and eight and ask all the time if they can make YouTube videos. So that got me to thinking in this new world with the gift economy and social media platforms such as steem they would be able to generate an income and make a living. My thought was when If i start my kids now by the time they're 20 they will have a track record and a bunch of followers ! Which also will take them away from the broken structure of middle school, high school ,college ,debt ,house job as slave!!

We live in different times yes. But people still have the same sort of prejudices albeit maybe on different topics. I see history repeating itself over and over again. We are all oppressed still, albeit it is much more subtle now. Tyranny with a smile.
I think people like Malcolm x, if they would be transported through time, would find the causes to our problems as they had during their times. Their writings are timeless because of that.

What a great person was he. But like every great person, he got exploited by those who are in charge.

Great post, as a mom I know where you are coming from. I do my best to remind my son of his heritage and culture. Thanks for sharing

My father did the same thing with me in the early 70s when I was a young child.
But then Malcolm X was an much fresher peoples mind then. As immigrants from West Africa in London, there was obviously some racism. In the UK then, we would admire these great leaders such as Martin Luther King and Malcolm X, they were our heroes. These heroes were not taught in in schools, however I would teach me about these great leaders, explain their politics and the recite their great speeches. These days we are very lucky and blessed to have great multicultural society worldwide. These great men, should be remembered for their work to help create multicultural society.

That's so great you taught her the importance of books and turning your life around. Kids these days are always focused on video games, social media, and TV. They never read books anymore. But books are what everything was found upon and is the basis for knowledge everywhere. Giving her that lesson is something that'll last the rest of her life and one that she'll really appreciate later. Thanks for sharing :)

i myself am learning about malcolm-x and marcus garvey. also i am a bookhead and did not know that reading in the dark makes your eyesight worse. whoops lol

Great lesson!

"I told her that he turned his life around through learning and reading in prison."

If every parent would do this, the world would be a MUCH better place...

"And plant the seeds of knowledge to come."

It's great your little girl is into reading books!
I used to do the same thing when I was young, hide inside my blanket and read using a torch.

LOved your post :)

My man, this is the best thing I have read from you yet. Mainly because it puts into perspective the kind of parent you are. I think we have that in common. Kids don't learn by telling them things, you have to plant seeds, water the seeds and provide the sunlight... they have to grow the seeds. I think what you did here was masterful. 11 is still young to grasp some of the things that happened during civil rights, and you framed it perfectly. You framed X perfectly. My hat off to you sir.

On a side note, X and King are two of my favorite people in history for two completely different reasons. X because of what you highlighted in this story. He made mistakes, he did bad things and went to prison. He was at the bottom and worked his way all the way to the top. He did it by changing his life and dedicating his life to learning and in a belief greater than him. He was a masterful speaker and one of the toughest men of his time. At a time when tough men grew on trees. King on the other hand, I respect, almost above all others because of his desire to affect change through peace. He did it too. He was brilliant beyond even his own understanding. Two incredible men living during one of the most challenging times in American History.

It sounds like you are a wise man, and I am very happy to follow you and get to know you through your posts on Steemit. I appreciate what you are doing to help raise the youth and our future. I also appreciate your ongoing support on my posts. I really means a lot.

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great post! enjoyed reading it

Great post

Teaching history to our youth is important because it gives them the opportunity to apply lessons learned from the past to carve out a future they desire.

Awesome post :)

I love one of the quotes from Malcom - "Education is the passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to those who prepare for it today." He did what he said and turned his life around learning from books. Very inspiring man.... good reading for children at young age and parents should consider encouraging their children to read his autobiography just as you are to your daughter.

Reading opens up the world to an individual. I too, started like this, and your horizon just broadens. Then you reach the point that not everything you read is true . That a lot of it , is really not true. Good post.

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One of the most important books ever written.

very wise approach @nanzo-scoop and I agree with @donkeypong's comment. I'm always struck by Malcolm X's incredible face, love these photos...

The Autobiography of Malcolm X is probably the book that has left the biggest impression on me. My children are too young to read it now but it's a book I hope I can get them interested enough to read when they are old enough. I keep telling anyone who will listen what a good book it is whenever the subject of books or Malcolm X comes up but despite me lending my copy and sending digital copies to a couple of people, they still haven't read it. They don't know what they are missing. What a man, what a book !!!

You are doing it right, education and knowledge is one of the most important things one can do to become self aware. Mad Respect!

As a child i never understood racism. I grew up in northern europe and the only black people i can remember from my childhood were my heros. Michael Jordan, Mike Tyson, Will Smith... growing up i was stunned by attitudes and the discussions i saw on the internet and im still interested to learn about the history of black people in america.

Your post and the idea inspire ! Thank you!

History is A great way for children to learn. It seems today parents are so busy, THEY don't have the time and energy to expose your children to these parts of history. Exposing children to history teaches them how not to repeat the mistakes of the past ! In today's world , I believe studying the past so we do not make the same mistakes, is very important. Also due to an onslaught of information kids today probably have a hard time making sense of all! This is where a good parent can guide their learning through reading. I appreciate your article due to the fact that I have an eight-year-old daughter and a six-year-old son and a one-year-old daughter. My children do good in school but I know they need exposure to important facts timelines historians. I believe it is my responsibility along with my wife to teach our children about these things you speak of. I appreciate your article and look forward to following you and reading more of your posts. I want to end this by saying good luck to anyone out there raising young children in this new high paced social media platform world. GOOD LUCK TOO ALL

Am I the only one who I read more online than offline books? :D

You perfectly educate your daughter, I would have such a father!

nice post! Thank you)

That was an awesome read. He left us, like so many others, way too soon.

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Wow, so great to see kids reading. My son is 8 and LOOOOVES reading. Research has also shown that it's VERY beneficial if you read to your children too :)
How old is your daughter?
It's also great to see she's interested in Malcom X. If she's curious about people from prison becoming leaders - she should definitely read up on Nelson Mandela too - definitely one of the best (if not the the best) leaders we've had in South Africa :)
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Oh wait, if I just read the title properly I'd see your daughter is the same age as my little bow - haha ;)

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This was a very good read, thanks for sharing this.