I'm probably far too logical for my own good sometimes. I'm one of those who believes that we completely control who fall in love with. We choose who we allow ourselves to get close to and attached to. I want to know these kinds of things before I choose whether to allow myself to get attached to someone or not. If you know certain things are going to be deal breakers for you, or are going to actually be a big problem in the future, why wouldn't you just avoid bringing that drama and heart ache on yourself and focus on finding someone you're more compatible with?
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if that works for you, all power to you. i found that whenever i had drama in my life i eventually grew from it myself, i've found that people change, circumstances change, people grow apart, what if that person has money and then gradually don't, are you telling me you trade them in for another financial suitable partner as and when? - you can't always have all the data -- but then, what do i know. i'm just happy to be here on planet earth today with breakfast burritos and coffee! - i wish you the best in achieving relationship zen!