I totally agree with this. Don't try to change your spouse, some things can be improved but not everything. Nobody can change everything you don't like about them, if they love you, they will try to improve the things they can work on - if not, then you just try to see the things you like and try to live with the things you don't. Nobody is born perfect and nobody will die perfect.

My ex tried to change me all the time, even after telling her a time after another that she can't change everything about me, but I try to be a better person for her, because all I had was love. Sadly though, she never understood.

I like your posts OG, so keep em coming!