Being a father.

in #life8 years ago (edited)

Being a father is not easy, i had a daughter in 2009, i was 28 and i did not feel immediately ready for that big responsability, i was not ready at all. But as we say " I took the challange" . I was not married, without my own place, i was not in the "perfect" situation for having a child.  The years passed away,  my life change, i change parthner, house, habits..but im still a father, and she change!

 She change me too. She become a little lady, she want cute clothes, she watch frozen and listen horrible hip hop songs and she 's voice is no more the same, that's make me a little sad, she grow up and im getting older! But i still do my best as a father, sometimes im not the best father of the world, im get tired when there are children birthdays or when she try to make me watch some girlish pink cartoon, sometimes i need a break, a motorshow, a beer, but i still try to teach her good manners, i do non want her grow up unrespectful and with bad manners. i want teach her how to treat well others, how to respect adult and more experienced people ( It will be very useful when you will enter in the job world), how to respect herself too.  But sometimes is hard because you know, children do not always listen what you say, she do it for few minutes but after a school day she came back more chaotic than when she leave in the morning , is hard also because i have an idea of education and her other parent another idea, people say i am an " Old style father"  . But i try to teach her as the best i can, i think i need to take care of her aducation, she cry today but she will say thak you dad when she will be older. 

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