10 reasons why people feel lost in life

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Have you ever asked yourself why you feel so painful? Often your soul is lost in the mazes of life and you do not feel that your heart relaxes everything you do and you feel that you often chose the wrong way if you originally chose this article will contain as much detail as you need.

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1-Loss of contact with soul and heart:

One of the basic reasons why a person feels lost in life is that he does not become in good contact with his heart and spirit because he pays much attention to what the mind does of logical things and what everyone around him says when he can not hear his inner voice and can not hear the voice of wisdom from his soul.

2- Life lives on the beliefs of others:

There are some people who believe in the beliefs of those around them that are too important to live a life that is not their life. They take the views of those around them and apply them to their lives only because they believe in the views of those around them, such as family, friends, teachers or society. Religious)

You should not believe in anything that you may take from the minds of people easily and do not listen to what they say and do not imitate what they do before they cross the barrier of thought, restrictions and filters that you put in your mind. You should analyze, think and put your mark on everything you do to.

3- Give value to the opinions of others higher than your own opinion:

Even if you have many people with reliable opinions and wisdom that do not disappoint you should not let their opinions outweigh your importance.

I do not say do not take the opinions or advice of others, but do not implement without thinking or analysis just think about everything that is said to you or interest you simply because they may not be in the same position or do not see the same scene that you see. You may take their views and adjust some things to fit with what you think .. Simple !!

4- Fear governs everything in your life:

For those who feel lost in life and disappointment this is one of the most important reasons that may make you feel this is fear. The hearts of these people are closed, surrounded by fear from all sides, and the ruler who controls their lives at home, at work, and with their friends, and at any time needs to make a decision that simply makes your life restrained and unhappy.

Although one of the most important engines in the life of human beings are love and fear, but this fear is satisfactory and inappropriate to coexist because if you want to feel better you must get rid of your fear and there is an article about this in self-educate and do something to fear him every day.

5- Distorted internal voice:

Sometimes your inner voice is the cause of distorting your life and everything you do not want. The problem is that human involvement in the living too much may distort his inner sense so that he sometimes deceives him and does not have the light that should follow him and does not reflect the truth then must return to the assets and the main objectives so it is preferable to write every day, Or anything that may remind you of what you should do from the start. You do a computer restore in some cases.

6- Surround yourself with people who make the situation worse:

Spend a lot of time with the wrong people one of the reasons for your sense of loss. When people yell at you, they pull you down. They are the ones who complain constantly. They blame and feel that they are victims. They broadcast a lot of negativity, doubts and fears.

Always try to surround yourself with positive people who are full of vitality, vigor and passion. You must surround yourself with those who inspire you in the spirit of creativity and challenge and help you in a positive and effective way to overcome all the obstacles that face you, whether psychic or realistic.

7- Believe every bad idea that comes to mind:

The brain is a great tool, but if it is used well and if you use it wrongly, it may turn life into hell because the mind works with a very simple logic: "Mind sees what you want to see" and enough. It puts in front of you only what you want to see whether bad or good This does not mean in the end is the implementation of your decision you alone and whatever you are the owners of positive ideas may occur and are exposed to some negative thoughts such as fear of failure or loss and this in itself can destroy your world so it must not Listen to the negative thoughts that the devil sends to you.

8- Thinking that logical things are more important than horses:

Imagination is often better than reality and may give you a lot of positive solutions to your problems, but sometimes it is about reasons and logic so that you forget the imagination and what you can do and ask yourself a lot of questions about the reasons and the logic of things happening. But in fact we seek in this world to look for ourselves. And we do not have the result or even may not see the end of the road clearly just do what you have to do and leave all the reasons and results on God is all of us.

9- Attachment to the past:

The past may be so beautiful that we forget the present, but it is not often true. All you have to do to make a change in the future or even to become happy in the future is to take care of the present and make it better. In the past something happened and we can not change it anyway. Is present you should remember it well.

10- Try to control everything and reach perfection:

We must agree that perfection and perfection are for God alone and not for us to be perfect. God has created us as sinners. We must repent of our actions. But the problem begins when we believe that we can control everything and each person creates a lot of disruptions in life anyway.

  • You must resort to God a lot and learn that we will not achieve perfection in any way just analyze your actions and learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them and imagine yourself the interest of everyone, we all carry enough of the world.
  • When you feel disappointed and lost you have to resort to God at the beginning then begin to calculate yourself and read the article and analyze your actions to get rid of your life and make you out of control.
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The past may be so beautiful that we forget the present, but it is not often true. All you have to do to make a change in the future or even to become happy in the future is to take care of the present and make it better. In the past something happened and we can not change it anyway. Is present you should remember it well.

Of course my past was so beautiful, my present life with lot of tears and my future is so unsure!!!
I am a mom with a special need son ...

The past is a lesson, the present is the chance and the future is the outcome.

I wish you a lot of strength! I know that's hard.

God will always be your strength! Our future will always be better and a kind of consolation for our past, we just need to be positive about it in all rounds!

If person full their mind with negativity and replace positive thoughts with
the negative ones then he would become uncomfortable for their whole life.

I think a very simple and effective way to start seeing more positive things in life is to have a journal and every day before going to sleep to think about 3 (or more) good things which have happened that day and write them down! It seems like a super easy thing (but who said only difficult things work? Maybe this is the issue we normally face.. We tend to over-complicate life...) to do but it really works.. I think sometimes we don't appreciate all the good things we have/experience since life is quite hectic.. but we have to take these few moments every day and try to reflect.. it can be anything... maybe someone smiled when gave you a cup of coffee, maybe you saw a rainbow or maybe your favorite song was playing when you entered a shop. We just have to learn to capture these magical moments and we will see that every day there is smth to smile about! :) I don't know you but I am sending you some smiles virtually! :)

There are many good points here. I particularly agree with the part "Attachment to the Past". Whether it's a good or bad past, being too attached to a previous situation either makes me dread it or miss it that I feel bad. We can't be too attached to the future either to the point that we worry about what may happen tomorrow. Living everyday as if it were your last is the best advice I've heard, though its far from literally thinking it's your last day. I mean panic may ensue if you knew it's true you'd die tomorrow! Haha. -That only means you need to keep worry and obsession to a minimum and do the best you can today in order to live your life to the fullest in he long run.

Spend a lot of time with the wrong people one of the reasons for your sense of loss

Yes, you are right about this. I've been in a wrong friend before and i regretted it. But at least I learned my lesson. :)

i know that feeling too...

It makes a world of difference who you choose to hang around in your life! Glad you learned your lesson!

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Thank you.

I like your work .. well done
Yes only perfect for God .. Must be patient
thank you for the advices

Don't live in the shadow of others but just collect their advices and suggestions and decide for yourselves what you think is right and just. Learn from experience but don't live with it, move on and set your goal in life.

You need purpose and confidence - that's all you need to stay happy and motivated

I am so addict to Steemit until no time to desperate

Often, people feel lost in life, when loose beloved person(((

To be lost and then found, life’s lessons are profound. :)

Ouch! The number 9 hits me so hard! haha =D

true you sum it up. i agree.

Very nice stolen article from purposefairy.com. Keep it up!

4- Fear governs everything in your life

I once read that the greatest suffering of man is the fear of suffering. 80% of the things you worry about will never happen. Do not let these thoughts control your life. Great article!

As you have pointed out @michaelmorcos Anyone whose life is based on what other thinks, feels, or says, is doomed to fail from start.

We all have our inner guidance system which should be trained and utilized for our personal profiting. It is what make us real humans.

It is only robots that takes orders and direction from everyone and everything.

In the end, the first person you need to make happy is yourself. If you aren't happy yourself, it becomes hard to make other people happy, and this can be quite a vicious cycle. People are way too fearful of what other people think of them, and way too attached to material objects. Material wealth doesn't matter, and it can never make you truly happy.
In the end, you should "simply" work on being the best possible version of yourself, as that is all you can do. If we are all a better version of ourselves tomorrow, than we are today, the world is bound to grow better.
of course, what is "good" is subjective....

This is so true. We waste our energy focusing on what others think and how they are judging us when we are really just judging ourselves. Once we learn to let go and look within ourselves it makes everything so much easier. And you are so right about material things. People use material things to fill the emptiness inside themselves instead of discovering who they truly are. We cannot take these items with us when we leave. They are simply here for the experience.

i think this post is written for me , i am completely lost .Every day is passing in my life as it is just another day and i am still breathing.
my heart is closed,surrounded by fear
i have lost the taste of life,
this post will be a big motivation for me!

I feel lost when I don't take the time to find out what I really want and why. When I am in touch with my own desires and not what it's expected of me, I am motivated to do what it takes to win.

This post is very great and helpful , thanks your information .

you are very right! ;)

Wow am amazed by the resolutions,,thanks allot.
By the way we can never have a straight path in life,,ofcos challenges will come in and also those lonely moments when you feel so down but the only solution is that you can make it.

So true, @michaelmorcos! Thanks for sharing that. It's a timely reflection for me feeling lost in the maze of steemit on my 4th active day here too... All the best to you and everyone out there.

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This is bang on! I totally agree with these reason as to why people feel lost in life. I personally, had to learn each and everyone of these things the hard way. But I am so grateful for the lessons.

Between our ego, society our past and the lack of awareness of the essence of who we really are, is a sure recipe for an unfulfilled life.

Following you :)

nice post, I also feel in my life so lost, but all the time heals

You wrote this understanding that someone would need these words. There is no true way to express my gratitude. I needed to hear so much of this, if not all...

I thrive in positively and try to do the same for others. But I have noticed that even one negative influence can halt all progress if it is a constant factor.

I have lost my sounding board, my logical mind that provides good advice. It has been a task to manuever with out such a pivotal influence

Advice and encouragement such as this, aids a great deal. Thank you so much for changing my attitude this day. I did indeed fall into the dark places of my mind. Thanks for the hand in pulling me out.

Be blessed this day and every one moving forward.

Once I changed my environment, my mindset changed too. Sometimes there were bad day where it felt like I was suffering from withdrawal, and craving my old lifestyle. But learning to love yourself and being your own best friend takes time. It's not a learning curve, but a jagged path.

Lamentan dolo mucho la vida es así, en la vida perdemos personas amadas sin poderlas recuperar.

Luarbiasa

Yes dude you right I understand your post all good things and I also always feel alone sometimes I try to live happy let's see

Only god know how glad I am find this post. I used to keep negative thing in mind and blame my self every time i got fail. There so many fears inside of me that make me step back when I have dare chasing my dream. So many. Thanks for your alignments. I will keep in mind and always remember what do you say in here. Thanks for the motivation @michaelmorcos

I’d rather regret the things I’ve done than regret the things I haven’t done,If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more,If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one....

I think the point is, seeing every situation as an experience whether it is good or bad. Just observe and take lessons.

Number three is really important, especially in this day and age. A lott of people are scrolling through their instagram feeds and seeing others living this amazing life (which is actually not reality) and begin to change their behaviour.

I feel like my life has been a series of miracles. I was in every sense a lost cause. I like your thinking why people feel lost in life @michaelmorcos

good content. what you are talking about is real ... thanks for your input .. i really liked your post.

Ferfect nature brother, i like ur post

If we could only learn to love what we have and be content we will be happy. The problem with us (that includes me) is we always want more, or we felt that we need more. We should be thankful for what we have and have god in our life and he will always provide

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- Surround yourself with people who make the situation worse:
- Attachment to the past:

The past have made an impact as I grew up to who I am and what I have become now and it frustrated, more so disappointed me, up until now. Because the past have made me do things that now makes me battle to fight getting through it. And all I'm hopings is that it isn't too late for me to change and overcome thses troubles.
Being surrounded by people who gives out bad vibes affects your mood too. I mean, for example, if your day started to be a bad one but here comes the negative vibes of people around you. So your mood would spark even more and that would totally ruin your day. And you know what, I'm surrounded with these kind of people. Those who blames and plays victims, almost all the time. Those righteous that they feel what they do, what they think of, what they feel & what they see reflects what's right. And that makes me question into confusion.
But, with everything said, it broadened my understanding on things and on people. I manage to live even with how the past has made me. I just had to move forward and find what I have lost or replace what was lost with a better one.

The key is appreciate the small things and understand that life doesn't have to be taken so seriously through stress and worries

Good article. Practically speaking points # 9 & 10 are disastrous which will eventually leave you dissatisfied and unhappy always.
While reading the article, I felt like crying... why ? I dont know :)

why...?

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aahhhh.... it does happens ... when you are going away from a beloved 1 and you know that you can be with her,, (again)

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