I Am A Family Man - This Is What Real Men Do

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For me as a father of two lovely kids and currently living in Thailand, I would like to share what do I do as a family man. On my 1 day off, I helped my wife a lot on some housework that she often do when I'm at work. My work at my job is to teach my students in an airconditioned classroom. On my free time at school, I'm only sitting in the faculty room and it's an airconditioned room, too. So, I'm not actually tired on most of the days that I spent working at my work. My wife is more tired than me so I took the chance on helping her.

Doing some of housework or and helping your wife such as ironing clothes, washing the dishes, washing clothes , etc. are not the reason to feel shy to some people who will see it. Most of men are letting their wife do the housework because that's their wife's job but,

Naaaaahhhhhh, I'm not that kind of a man though I married her because I love her and not to use her like a maid.

I will show to all of you

|| WHAT REAL MEN DO ||

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Last Thursday, I'd got a 1 day off from from my work due to that it's a national holiday in Thailand.

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When my children, Mikhail and Mikele, woke up in the morning, I let them do some of their homework form their mom. Mikhail did some Maths. He's mom wanted him to do more Maths because he's weak in that subject so.
Mikele did what his everyday habit and everyday homework from his mom. Well, they did a good job.


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I made breakfast for them and they really liked it. Hahaha. I'm not good at cooking but, they still liked it. Hahaha.


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Mikhail did what I want him to do in his everyday drawing challenge from a good friend of mine @rigaronib. To see his drawing, you can click HERE


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My wife went to the department store with her mom and our children and I decided not to go with them because.....

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I cleaned the aircondition as it was supposed to be last week and put out the filters of it to clean them. Too, much dust. Haha

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I cleaned our electric fan 'cause it's very dusty, too. Haha.

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I put them outside our house's terrace to let them dry and while waiting for them to dry.......

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I hanged our clothes as I washed it using our washing machine. Well, lucky for me that we had washing machine hahaha.
And still waiting for them to dry........

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I cooked my lunch and I cooked fried egg for me. We had a lot of food in our refrigerator but..... This is the easiest food to cook. Hahahahaha..

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Done. Same as new and the breeze of the air from the electric fan stills smells like fabric. LOL!


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I washed my buddy here named "The Black Mamba" that's always keeping me safe when I'm going to work. Thanks to this 150 cc NOUVO MX.


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I ironed my children's shirt in advanced so that their Mom wouldn't have to do it i always do every morning before going to work.


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And finally they came back home...

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My youngest son Mikele gave me some bread and told me to eat with with. It's very nice of him and so lovely.


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Aside from arts, Mikhail likes to make Legos, too. He asked me a favor of he can build a Robo Lego and I let him,why not?


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And some of the things that we did were the things that our family were doing everyday, I didn't had the chance to take some pictures of ours.


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"I don't feel any regrets on what I am doing 'cause I love them and that's what fathers must do. I don't let my wife do all the work. We stick together and do it. She doesn't need to ask for my help 'cause she knows that I will. I don't let her pick up my socks. I'm not letting her feel disorganized because our goal is to make out family happy. So, to all single men out there, this is what you have to do,

Don't let your future wife wake up in the morning and realized that she had become a maid."

Feel free to read my article post I Am A Family Man part 1 to know all about me.


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You are truly a real man.

Yes, I am @mimidiamond😊 and will truely be for my family. 😊
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