I do believe that men and women can be friends. In fact, I have more men friends than women friends because I've always been more like "one of the guys" instead of a girly girl. I've never been physically attracted to my male friends but I do love them and love being around them. And if they've ever felt more for me (which I doubt) they've never told me or made any moves. That being said, I'm happily married...and he happens to be my best friend of all.