Men can be very direct. If you ask why your man is angry at you, you may find a very rough answer. Men do not care about diplomacy, and their statements are simple and factual. They are aware of this, so they often prefer to remain silent not to be misunderstood by the female over-interpretation. In addition, men do not have the habit of weighting for the intonation of the voice as women who have learned to care for their children.
Do you think your partner too rarely says he loves you? He does not always have to show it to you with a torrent of words. Do you know why a man in the apology almost always brings flowers or a gift? A bit because it wants to quit you, but also because it can not say everything that should.
More than one man would like to be able to say how he feels, for example, that he feels bad for the soul. Unfortunately, it does not allow him to stereotype the role of a man who has to cope with everything, regardless of his own desires and needs. Perhaps your man can not tolerate his work, but he can not admit it because in the end you count on him, you have a common credit? Maybe he does not want to show his weaknesses.
Women talk about emotions, feelings we can do it for hours. Men limit themselves to naming a problem and are going to solve it. They do not look for the cause, do not meditate on it, do not analyze it from any side, do not look for alternative solutions. For a man counts the solution of the problem, the woman first experiences it, the counsel of all who they trust, then the majority of them do their way.
Do you know any other reasons why men do not talk about their feelings? I am very curious about your opinion on this subject!
My earlier ones. You welcome to read it. Thank you for your support ;)
https://steemit.com/blog/@margaretwise/big-bum-and-then-what-my-opinion-about-the-topic
https://steemit.com/blog/@margaretwise/sexuality-and-attractiveness-my-opinion-about-the-topic
Good post ;-)!
Thank you my hubby 😘
Nice post.The thought of this is conditioned on our next generation. Men time to hunt, and there wins better, stronger, faster. Guys were concentrated there on objects and hierarchy
Men don't want to seem weak! I can literally complain and go on and on about everything that annoys me in a day! A man won't even complain about being cut off on the road lol but me on the other hand....
Yes, this is exactly what you say. However we are here in this world the women the beautiful balance 😁 so it should help (sometimes ) or depends of woman. Thank you for your interesting point of view. Have a wonderful day 🤗
It does help 😌 And thank you, you do the same
I have to tell mine he is being a drama queen and then he stops complaining lol
Great post analyzing us men! Just had a look into the mirror! 😀😉
Have a very nice day, my friend!
I try to share what I observe around me. 😁 Thank you. Have a great day my friend.
Btw the order is one the way 🤗
WOW Great! 🙂🙃🙂🙃
Will be waiting for the postman ever! In any case I have time to wait, for I'm still off till end of July!
Have a very good afternoon! Me I' going to bed now, it's 11:20pm.
Good night my friend. Hug to your lovely wife :-) 🌅🌴😊
I had a teamate on my hockey team commit suicide last year totally out of the blue. He had a wife three kids and made big money. He never said a word to anyone about his feelings. We later found out through a letter he wrote that he was suffering inside and not one person on our team was able to see any signs of a problem.Its so true that men don't talk about there feelings.
That is soooo sad. I am sorry to hear that. I heard about the stories like yours. Always break my heart. The band queen says "too much love will kill you". Let me tell you remoteness and loneliness also kills. So no matter how do we feel we need to find the time for our family, friends and colleagues. Sometimes simple conversations can help or not. There is no recipe for life but trying to be among the people who know that you exist it can help. Thank you for your comment I am so appreciate for that.
It's so true what you're saying.
Thank you as a lady I am trying to get to my man and try to open him but if he needs time I try to give him that time. We are different but in this difference ( it is hard ) we shoul found the balance. One of us can I wonder who ... 😊
This is a very good writing. Congrats, man!
Thank you I tried to show the problem and how we should handle it . Thank you for your comment. Have a good one 😊
Thanks Margaret, enjoyable reading, kinda... i mean men can be very direct like you said :)
I noticed something and I'd love to share :-) thank you 😊
Very interesting post a nice pictures of men ;).
I can not make say much about this, because in my situation I am the one that considers a waste of time to talk about my feelings. And my SO has never gave me flowers or chocolates to apologize, instead he just talks and talks and talks lol.
Probably this way he unloads his emotions, maybe it's good for him. Well, better than he says than to hide the emotions within himself. Greetings
Agree
My emotion to this .... :|
heheh, just imagine the world if men and women would both show their emotions, it would be end of the world as we know it :P
Yes it would be crazy. However one of us is stronger inside and could change a little bit ... I understand that is not easy way... but who said so that would be easy. :-) thank you for your comment my friend. Have a good one :-)
Great post..agree with your opinion...upvoted & resteemed
Thank you my friend. Thank you for your comment and visit :-) have a good one 😊
You welcome dear friend:))
Nice post my friend Up&Resteem
Thank you my friend. Appreciate. Glad that you visit and for your resteem. Have a good one 😊
Tu post es interesante, hace algun tiempo lei un libro que se llamamban los hombres eran de martes y las mujeres de venus, aprendi a conocer mas acerca de ellos
Thank you 😊
You can't put everyone into 1 bowl, different countries, different upbringing...
I don't talk about anything at all, so I might be a 101% match, but still...
Thank you for comment.
I think it depends on the male and his personality and upbringing. My husband is pretty good at sharing his feelings. We always talk things out which makes our relationship healthy. Most men think sharing feelings makes them appear weak or they feel like because they are men they should be able to deal with problems on their own.
So good to hear that. Thank you for your interesting comment ;) Have a great day my friend ;)
Unfortunately there are more closed and silenced man in themselves :(
I agree, I am in a similar situation with my husband.
In is hard to say but they are who they are so maybe we should somehow get to them. We are pretty smart ladies 😊. I understand you. Thank you for your comment my friend. :-)
men are not allowed to open up emotionally.
Women are human beings
Men are human doings.
When a man begins to appear weak to his love interest, she often loses respect for him. Too much loss and the bedroom turns dead and she starts looking around for a replacement.
Thank you for your comment. Appreciate. Interesting view ;)
Peer pressure and upbringing, and telling some other men how you feel is seen as a sign of weakness so we keep our mouths shut for fear of ridicule.
Thank you for you good comment. Appreciate. That's why I would like to write about it. :)
I agree with everything you said! We're definitely different and that's it!
Thank you for your comment. I agree with you we are totally different.