Hello @ogoowinner
As I read your article, I could relate to it straight. I had a Mark in my life. He did the same thing to John. I asked him why he did that and he said that if he helped John, John won't respect him anymore or come to his place to ask for help. I was shocked to think someone could think like this. I advised John to look for something to do and stop collecting handouts from Mark. I didnt tell him that reason for advising him but I guess he must have thought about it.
I just don't know why people would ever want to be like Mark. Thanks for reminding me not to trust by the outward works of someone.