Good afternoon! Again, excellent reflection. I believe that on many occasions, unfortunately, many of us have felt used by other people and, in those cases, we still have a feeling of sadness in our soul. I believe that this happens, because of the mentality of utilitarianism, to see people many times as objects, as things, that we can use and then discard.
Hence the importance that I see in this reflection, since it is very different when faced with a situation that solutions are sought to win/win, rather than seeking to take advantage of people, that is, I believe that the key is to do good to others and ourselves, taking advantage of the situations that arise in life and not taking advantage of others. Logically, for this it is necessary to overcome selfishness and individuality, as is clearly expressed in the valuable reflection that @papa-peper has shared with us. Thank you very much for that!

https://steemit.com/life/@lauraac/being-opportunistic-taking-advantage-of-situations-not-people