@razvanelulmarin

You need to read this then (lolz)

http://www.indiewire.com/2015/02/6-reasons-why-fifty-shades-of-grey-is-a-classic-romance-review-roundup-188883/

I don't think romance is matter of debate. nature speaks manipulation. i actually dare you to find one aspect in your romantic life that you are not manipulated :)