I headed out with a cheery spring in my step

Like one who just won a trophy from a cage fight
Sometimes people feel what they're thinking is best for one but we've got a desire, it was free but that's not the expectation, in anticipation he had over done it trying to please you but he all got it wrong. Now he's angry you didn't show gratitude for his effort but he failed to ask your pleasings, he judged you by your actions and judged himself by his intention which is not a fair deal. Thanks for sharing.