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Exactly! It's so hard to get in touch with a pessimistic person. If both are positive and believe that it can work then it probably will. If one distrust the other one from the start, then the relationship doesn't even need to begin in my eyes.

So true!
I agree completely with that. As soon as I see that the person doesn't trust me, I don't waste my time.

Yeah. It sounds quite rough to say that but I guess we both learned that from our past :)