​

​

In an attempt to impress and win a woman over, many men will chase her nonstop, not realizing that this actually does more harm than good. Women are always talking about how they want to be chased. It's not to the level a lot of men may think.

​

You'll come across as desperate

No one wants to be your only or last option. They want to feel chosen. If a woman thinks you are desperate for her attention, you put her on a pedestal. Then, she will see you as someone who has low self-esteem. That type of attention isn't attractive at all. No one wants to be with that person who literally can't get anyone else and doesn't have any options. This doesn't mean doing the extreme opposite, though. Trying to rub your options in her face will also make you come off as insecure. It's best to just be the best version of yourself. That way, you'll be a catch that naturally gets attention. You won't have to even try to fake it.

It Won't End

Suppose you have to chase a woman heavily to win her over. Maybe you do end up winning her over, but the result is you have to chase her indefinitely. If she becomes accustomed to you chasing her, you stop your efforts. She'll want it back. And that effort that you were putting in at the beginning of the relationship that wasn't maintainable will become the standard. You'll instead want to find a mature woman who understands that long-term relationships change over time. She won't expect those intense gestures that you were making at the beginning.

You'll Miss Out

You'll miss out on women who will love and respect you as is, The ones who will love you how you are and not want you to change. The women who are actually suitable for you. Relationships aren't supposed to be that difficult. The one who is right for you, Will still want effort from you but it will be at a reasonable level. If she knows your intentions, she should start reciprocating; if she's interested in you, of course!