Finding the right woman for you is no easy feat. But you can make it easier on yourself by having a few key traits many women find attractive. That way, you can have a woman that is worth it. Who isn't trying to use you for your resources.
Talks about a future
Obviously, you don't want to talk about having kids on the first date. But being open to talking about future plans is really attractive. A woman who wants a long-term relationship with a man will avoid dating someone who is hesitant about commitment. If you are the type of man who doesn't want to get married these days, that is Valid. But it's worth considering what level of commitment you are thinking about having. A lot of women are looking to get married. Security is the #1 thing we look for. While marriage isn't foolproof for this, It can help us feel better about investing more in the relationship.
Good At Listening
Most people suck at listening to these days. The world is full of mindless distractions. It's easy to mindlessly scroll through social media and not think of anything. Most people don't have deep and meaningful conversations with their partners, and their relationships have suffered greatly as a result.
People fail to communicate their wants and needs, and often, when they finally do, It just falls on deaf ears.
Listening to what someone is saying without automatically thinking of a response will help the person feel heard. We often cut in at our first possible opportunity just so we can talk.
Letting a woman vent to you sometimes and letting it all out can really help the relationship overall. A lot of women cope with things by venting at first before looking for a solution. Unfortunately, her needs may not be what they appear when she talks about them. It could be something underlying, which is why it's important to listen.
Humble
Ask people what they think of their appearance based on 1–10. Surprisingly, a lot of people will answer 10. A lot of people subconsciously assume they are better at other things. And have a strong positive bias towards everything that they do. We don't see a lot of humble people these days when it's so easy to post something on social media and get a ton of likes in an hour. We over-exaggerate our traits and accomplishments. We assume what we've been through is a lot more horrific than others.
But the reality is everyone has faced their own sets of challenges and has accomplished lots of things. We aren't even close to being the only ones. It's important to be confident but at the same time humble. You can be proud of your accomplishments, but avoid bragging.
Honesty
It's easy to be dishonest. When we are dishonest, we often come up with an excuse to justify our behavior to ourselves and others so we don't have to feel as bad about what we are doing. We often don't want to admit our faults because it's embarrassing and takes a hit to our ego. But the reality is so many people will like us more when we are honest about where we fail. People will feel comfortable when they can rely on us for things. When you are honest, you can be relatable. A lot of people put on this facade that they are perfect, But that couldn't be further from the truth.