6 Types of toxic friends you shouldn't have

in #life7 years ago

Life is too short to have people that don’t help us evolve around us, so you should ask yourself what positive things does a person bring before deciding to keep him or her around you.

If you can’t find any good things in your relationship or friendship, maybe it’s time to take separate roads and look for someone who actually deserves your friendship. These are the 6 types of toxic people you shouldn’t keep in your life.

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The jealous friend


Jealousy isn’t just unhealthy for your friend, it’s also not good for you. Jealousy and envy says a lot about that person, but when he/she starts making you feel bad about your accomplishments, it’s starting to become a problem.

A good friend will encourage you to follow your dreams and will always be proud of you.

The negativist


Negative thoughts can be contagious and the closer you are to such a person, you’re more likely to become like them, even if you don’t notice it at first. You should have friends that can also see the bright side, not friends that are always pessimistic.

The disaster


Those friends that simply can’t take care of themselves, those who don’t have their priorities put in order and are always counting on you to help. They might be good people, but you can’t always take care of them, it’s not your responsibility.

The drama queen/king


We all know that person that lives for drama. It might be fun at first, but if you’re past your high school period, nobody has time for that much gossip and drama. Even if it’s hard to quit listening to dramatic stories all the time, these types of people are toxic for you.

The one who’s always judging


You should be able to live your life the way you want, and it’s possible to do that when you’re in the right company. But it’s so annoying to feel like you’re always criticized, especially by someone who is supposed to be by your side. After all, you’re friends, right?

Learn to make the difference between someone who gives you advice because they care about you, and someone who’s simply there to judge.

The mean friend


The mean friend was probably funny in high school, but the mean attitude and the bullying didn’t stop by now, it’s not okay anymore. And if you’re seen with a person like that, everyone will think that you’re the same, or even worse, you’ll start acting like that yourself.

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Oh ya igree..i always run far away from these kind of friends..especially a jealous one.whenever i knew about my friend that he is having jealousy nature i break friendship with him.

Some friends could be more than toxic..very poisonous..It only had sometimes to identify them but they do exist..hope you find a true friend @jwolf. Many thanks for these expressions..happy sunday from Ghana

Wish you a great day!

Many thanks always sir

Wow... So I'm wondering how long it took you to sit,analyze, observe and write about these sets of persons, but I must you are very correct. They are toxic to us (in friendships and relationships) " The diaster"... Some of them are not aware that this is what they do we sometimes have to bring it to their knowledge and help them fix it. We can then pull out if we see they do not want to change.

The mean friend, sometimes they are act mean for the fun of it not because they have any negative intentions... But if you know you are easily influenced.... Then I agree with you to stay away from such people... Nice post dear. Thanks for sharing @jwolf.

It took me 5 years

Wow.😱 5 years ??? That's a long time. This is worth sharing. Resteemed...

Great show, I like it!

Thanks friends
I like your post

the same thing happened to me, life is full of struggle @jwolf

Definitely poisonous attitude. Just keep away with kind kind of people. Thanks for sharing @jwolf.

Jealous friends can be so mean. They can even be jealous of your husband. Bad friends

I totally agree with you on this, especially on the negativist type of friend because sooner or later you tend to join them in been negative about life without you even knowing.

Indeed very true , we all could just gift ourselves by negative thoughts if we continue sharing a bond of friendship with them . It's always advisable to get separated from these kind of people because we may impart some crooked habits from this people , it also saves out time &energy . Thanks for the post @jwolf

the friends who can say the mistakes you done in front of you are the best as they want to see the best of us

Nice post - hang in there and maybe you will soon be travelling the world and perhaps finding a place to settle.

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Couldn't agree more!

i don't like the negative people who are not even positive even a single percent they always think of negativity all the time

Thanks for your job. I really didn't know the concept of the " mean friend ", this not very commun in french. Interesting.