I found this article very interesting, but all attributes you have mentioned before loses consciousness without the right perspective. For exemple, loyalty or love very often could be an double-edged weapon, if the kids don't find any bond with parents, they can be loyal to friends before parents; or love, if you don't teach people what love really is, people can do the most terribles things "for love", and modern families are full of terrible things like tolerance towards bad things (like homosexuality, alcohol, drugs, fornication) in the name of love, only to obtain a peace that is impossible to achieve, while these things contradict and offend the name of God and his word . I think you should raise up a deeper perspective of it.