That's a pretty rough story. I'm glad you're happier now and moving forward. I'm new here too and I finally figured out the whole 50/50 100% thing on posts, apparently its always better to select 50/50 and then use your steem dollars to power up. This guy explains it better than I can: https://d.tube/v/kevinli/rah26h49 I made the 100% mistake today too so I thought I'd let you know.