Do you know that no one is perfect in this world?
Do you know that everyone has flaws?
No one is perfect. This is the naked truth we have yet to accept.
Let's take a moment to check the meaning of perfection and flaws.
According to Cambridge Dictionary
Perfection is the state of being complete and correct in every way
According to Cambridge Dictionary
Flaws means a fault, mistake, or weakness, especially one that happens while something is being planned or made, or that causes something not to be perfect.
Everyone has different faces, different hair type, different color, different shoe size.
Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Some of us are creative and skilled in different areas. Some are oriented and sensitive while others are not. Tho we are not perfect but we are unique in our own way. So why try to be perfect when you know you can't.
Below are some of the things you need to stop doing.
Don't Live A Lie.
I see a lot of people putting on a fake lifestyle on social media just to attract attention. I see a lot of people getting depressed with little or no likes after uploading a picture of themselves. I see a lot of people who can only afford to eat once a day, but they go on social media taking pictures of foods that are not even theirs.
Who are you trying to impress?
You don't have to pretend and lie to everyone only to get attention. What happens when you don't have enough money to live the kind of lifestyle that you've already sold out to people? Do you start selling the little things that you have, only for people not to laugh at you. Or will you take loan form a loan shark with no guarantee you'll be able to pay back.
Learn to be comfortable with the little things that you have right now. Everything will take place at the right time.
Don't Compare Yourself To Other People.
You don't go out because you're not wearing the trending cloths.
You beat yourself up because you can't be as successful as your friends.
You give up because you've failed at everything. You forget that what is working for someone right now might not work for you. You know why? Because we're all different.
Don't try to do the same thing your mates are doing. You can't just decide to follow someone blindly. It's like you're driving with no direction. Be your own self. Make your own decisions. Decide on what you want to do.
Once you've accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you
Don't Forget To Work On Yourself.
No one is perfect doesn't mean you shouldn't work on your weaknesses. If we accepted that no one is perfect, including ourselves, criticism would be nothing more than pointing out the facts.
You can only get better when you decide to work on yourself. Self motivation is important for any growth to happen. You have to be willing to do what it takes to make yourself better. Don't just do anything in life, you will just be aimless and hopeless, instead, do what you love best and are sure you are good at, it is then you can never be a failure. Be positive because positivity will attract positive people into your life. Having a few genuine, positive friends is better than having lots of negative ones. Decide on what you want today. You don't have to wait for the right time.
Be Happy With What You Have
A lot of people are in debt today because they choose to live a fake life. Simply because they were not happy with their current situation in life.
Happiness brings joy. You see people putting on a fake smile only to fool everyone. But deep inside they suffer form depression.
Are you not tired of pretending? Are you not tired of seeking attention? Be happy with yourself. Be happy with your work. Be happy with your life. You might not have everything you needs right now, but believe in yourself and in your future. Everything will turn out great for you.
No one is perfect. Which is why pencils were made with erasers, and apologizes were created.
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it is really necessary that we learn to work on ourselves and constantly develop and grow ourselves into becoming better humans
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