Well said.
I can now see how a #Wedding can bring #INSPIRATION and hope to many. I read your description in full - and it is true that it was "against the Odds" that you & the young man from Karachi would ever come together.
Bravo to you for expressing your thoughts on the matter. I hope for you that your family can achieve some balance, & some measure of a Peaceful co-existence.
And You're right - people spend much too much time focused on anger and the DIFFERENCES between us -- rather than honing in on what we have in common !
And there are things to be found, that we as Humans share - things such as the simple joy of learning, sunshine, family picnics/Nature, love ♥
Take care, you.