Just wretched. I hesitate to refer to these people as 'parents'; the word 'criminals' seems more apt. It is simply beyond reprehensible for grown adults to assault tiny innocent beings
On a more positive note, I want to congratulate Richard for having the strength to refuse to go along with his ex-wife's demands to have a child. He is completely right to be fearful of bringing a child into the world before he has dealt with his own traumatic past.
I want to wish him well and urge him to seek counseling if he hasn't already.