@enazwahsdarb first of all, I wish steemit would put notifications on people that we want to see first so it would not be that hard for us to stalk the people we like. I'm a little bit sad for not seeing your post on the same day you published it.

Anyway, No matter how you keep your feet on the ground, as firm as you could, there are always people who will try to insist their own believes as your reality. They will tell you how you've changed a lot, how you discriminate them, and how boastful you become. They assume and quickly judge the person not based on what that person really said or respond but based on their own perspective. They quickly judge and assume without even calmly confronting the person.

Normal is boring. So we want to do the opposite of what the normal people do. That's really a great idea. If you want to become a part of that 1%, you need to prepare yourself for you will not only go to a single battle. You'll undergo a series of battle. Winning against yourself is the longest and most difficult battle of all. And here are the naysayers, toxic people, and people with a crab mentality. These people is hunting for a person who is brave enough to climb the wall. When they have their target, they will start to pull that person down as much as they could. They will resist the change you are making and they will continually insist their own beliefs in you. If you refuse their beliefs they will tell you how you discriminate them, how you change, how high you fly because you are already successful but in your "OWN" version of your reality is different. When people consider you as a success, you see yourself as you taking the first step towards your goal. When people tell you how you change, how you discriminate them, and how high you soar, you are actually tracking and keeping up with your goals. You are actually spending sleepless night studying and applying the things you learn to become better. You are actually exploring, discovering and experimenting. And as you do that you'll learned different things. Lessons that can change your own philosophy.

If you think you are strong enough: mentally, physically, and emotionally then please... feel free to climb the wall and soar as high as you can. If you really want to become a part of that 1 percent be willing to fall, be willing to be criticize, be willing to cry, be willing to be depressed, and be willing to walk alone. Be willing to say no to parties and gatherings. Be willing to postpone your dream trip, be willing to neglect and get neglected. Be willing to continue no matter how slow your progress is. As long as you are making that step, in no time, all the hard works, the sacrifice, and trials will reap great rewards.