The society is very complex. Every group has its own rules. As a member of the society, we must abide by it.
社會很複雜，每個群體都有自己的規則，作為社會的一員，我們必須的遵守。
1.We should not readily accept others' gifts, even if they are not worth a gift.
1.不要輕易接受他人的禮物，即使是不值一文的禮物。
As the old saying goes, if you eat others, your mouth will become soft. If you take others` something, your hands will shorten. Remember, don't have a cheap mentality. You know, there's no free lunch.
老話說，吃人嘴軟，拿人手短。這點切記，不要有貪便宜的心理。要知道，沒有免費的午餐。
2.It is best not to find acquaintances to ask for teaching skills.
2.拜師求教學手藝，最好不要找熟人。
Sometimes, once you get acquaintance, you will complicate matters. It's better to find a stranger. Don't always think of the acquaintances to do things well.
有的事情，找了熟人，反而式事情複雜化。還不如找個陌生人。不要總想著熟人好辦事。
3.If you give advice to others, please stress the key and not keep chattering away.
3.建議的話點到為止，不要喋喋不休。
No one really wants to hear your advice, sometimes he just complaining.
沒人真心想聽你的建議，有時只是他發牢騷而已。
4.You can evaluate one thing at will, but don't judge a person at will.
4.可以隨意評價一件事，但千萬不要隨意評價一個人。
We have the right to evaluate things, but we should be cautious about people. No one likes people who talk about others behind their backs.
對事，我們有評價的權利，但是對人，我們要謹慎。沒人喜歡背後議論他人的人。
5.Worse off than some, better off than many, This is a healthy state of mind, either accepting or trying hard to accept it later.
5.比上不足比下有餘是健康的心態，要麼接受，要麼自己努力過後再接受。
Social temptation is too much, do not do unnecessary comparisons, that will make you tired.
社會誘惑太多，不要做無謂的攀比，那會讓你身心疲憊。
6.Recognize yourself and know how much you are capable of. Some occasions are not for you to exercise.
6.認清自己，知道自己幾斤幾兩。有的場合不是讓你鍛鍊的。
Remember the proverb, don't have a diamond, don't work the porcelain.
要記住俗語，沒有金剛鑽，別攬瓷器活。
7.Don't criticize others for their beliefs, idols, dreams.
7.不要對別人的信仰，偶像，夢想隨意批評打擊。
Faith, idols, dreams are spiritual pillars of a person. No one wants you to hurt them.
信仰，偶像，夢想是一個人的精神支柱，沒人願意你去傷害他們。
8.Don't try to be as good as everyone else.
8.不要試圖對每個人都一樣好。
Be selective to people. Do not think you are good to him, he will also be good to you. 9 times to him is good + 1 time not good to him = bad for him.
對人，要有選擇性。不要認為你對他好他就會對你也好。九次對他好+一次對他不好=對他不好。
9.Do not want to change a person, do not fantasize to save a person.
9.別想改變一個人，也不要幻想拯救一個人。
Your role is not that big.
你的作用沒有那麼大。
10.There must be a degree in everything. Don't be too close to your friends. Keep a distance, even your best friend.
10.凡事都要有個度，不要和朋友們太親密無間，要保持一點距離，即使是最好的朋友。
Things will develop in the opposite direction when they become extreme. If things go too far, they will produce opposite results.
物極必反，事情做過了，反而會帶來相反的結果。
11.Don't always move to others, it would be unpleasant to anyone.
11.不要一味遷就，也不要將就。這樣會鬧得誰都不愉快。
Always move to others will make you tired, and this behavior is not pleasing. One day, you can't stand it.
一味的遷就將就，會使你很累，而且這種行為並不討好。終有一天，你會受不了而爆發。
So, what are the social rules in your country? Can you share them?
那麼，你們國家的社會規則是怎麼樣的呢，可以分享一下嗎？