About the Child Abuse, there's regulatory body I know that monitors cases like this or similar to this. It's NAPTIP, it has branches in major regions in Nigeria and are always ready to perform their duties.
As per Spiritually, this is a complicated issue and as it sound, Spiritual, it something we should be careful when talking about because just the words we speak is a spirit.
I had times in my life when I had to just live myself not minding religion, but I always come back to God.
Religion is a personal race whether Christianity or others and to that of Christianity, there are various Faith, the issue comes with what Faith your comfortable with, that's why of various gifts, we were given that spirit of discernment.
Your choice of religion or Faith shouldn't be based on another man's way of life for in the end we came differently...
So my Sister @ogoowinner, please work with your spirit... And Pls how can I reach you, I'll need to have a talk with you....