You were cute as a child.

I think this falls into another problem caused by society never training any of us how to actually live. We don't know how to deal with our problems and our scars. So when someone hits an old wound, we lash out. The richer among us can afford psychologists and psychiatrists to try to overcome our faults, depending on just how rich they are. Only a bit well off? We you better not have too many problems! We all should be helped from the time we were children to deal with the problems in life, rather than taught to sit in a chair and piss ourselves while memorizing equations.